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OUR FIRST VALENTINE’S DAY

Our first Valentine's Day as a couple was disastrous. My husband did not believe that he needed an annual "special" day to show me he loved me and I (of course!) was upset. wanted to celebrate our love and Valentine's Day is all about celebrating love. I felt his idea about not wanting to "commercialize" his sentiments for me was a cop-out.

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What he did, instead, was write me a long letter about his reasons for not celebrating Valentine's Day. A letter! I didn't want to accept it. Instead I turned up my nose at it and he ripped it up. My curiosity about the letter stemmed my tears and as soon I could I fished out all the tiny pieces of "my letter" from the trash and pieced them together. As I read it I found that it was the most beautiful love letter (and the only one since!) I had ever received. I realized he was right. As my husband wrote, "We don't need a special day to prove the words "I Love You" to each other. We prove it everyday in the things we do for each other, celebrate it in our laughter and treasure it in moments that a Valentine's Day card or gift can never fully represent."

—Laura Garcia